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About
Graham Burrough
The
man who inspired the Trust was a Dorset man who was blind for 40 years
and tackled his physical and related problems with courage and style.
Graham was born in Bridport in 1931 and was diagnosed diabetic in 1933:
one of the first generation to survive on insulin, with a life expectancy
of 40 years.
Childhood health was a burden; he endured boarding schools at Sherborne
(always hungry, often lonely). Most sports were denied him but sailing
became his great love. He battled academically and achieved his final
Accountancy qualifications in 1957.
With a boat
in Bridport and an MG to drive, he began to enjoy life. Then his eyesight
failed. By 28 he was totally blind.
Typically, he met this disaster head on, learned the skills he would need
at rehab in Torquay, sold the car, bought a house and acquired a circle
of willing helpers, noticeably frequently female!
A second
major blow was the tragic death of his mother. Character and charisma
sustained him. He became a successful Tax consultant and a prize-winning
wildlife sound recordist. A national winner in 1976. He had a wide network
of telephone contacts and a beautiful BBC voice. He constantly researched
people, equipment, ways and means to widen both his business and personal
interests; to be "normal" in a sighted world.
By his 50th birthday Graham had achieved not only an 'extra' 10 years
but private and professional success, designed his own home, married and
was loved and admired by supportive family and wide reaching friendships.
The toll of his illness, several physical crises, and long years of "working
three times as hard just to keep up" (his words), so long kept at
bay by a doughty and determined will (and how!) began to distress him
mentally.
After
several very difficult years, in and out of hospital and with little consistent
support, he and his equally exhausted wife found refuge and loving care
for him at The Retreat in York. A long way from home, but offering the
asylum and total care that he needed and deserved, and the right of every
hurt body and mind.
Graham fought on for another 10 years with courage and unforgettable style.
He died in York Hospital in October 1997. He was 66 and had truly beaten
the odds.
Please remember him with gratitude.
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